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dirtymind
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posted on 09-03-2006 at 00:34 |
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To guys: how do you feel about a girl who's a virgin??
Hello, I'm a girl, 24, a virgin. At first it was a religious thing because I was raised a Christian and was taught that sex was evil. Now i'm not religious (for some time now) but was afraid to have sex for several reasons:
1. thinking that it would terribly hurt
2. didn't know (afraid) how to tell a guy that I was still a virgin, so didn't get intimate to 'that' point
I am not a type of person who believes in no sex before marriage, in fact i don't even want to get married (politics). I have no problem getting a guy but the problem now is most guys i meet are just jerks and not real men. I actually told one guy that I was a virgin and we even talked about me loosing it with him and we almost had an intercourse, but I got so freaked out and backed out, later it turned out this guy was a jerk too.
I have been fingered and masturbated several times, had amazing phone sex with one guy for some time, but in this society it seems that its a shame if you're 24 and still a virgin. I don't want to lose to a random guy, but I want to have sex too because i know it will be good and I think I'm a very sexual person and is missing out. Perhaps i'm being too insecure about my virginity (i do feel proud but not all the time) and when i meet a nice person I will be afraid of telling him I'm a virgin and see his reaction.
I want to hear some guys' responses about this PLEASE 
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dirtymind
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posted on 09-03-2006 at 00:48 |
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oh one more thing
and one more thing: would the guy think that something is wrong with me because I waited so long and won't want to do it because I'm not experienced??
I really want to give it away to someone who deserves it and I want to have a passionate loving sex and not just 'get laid'.
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Jayce
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Posts: 15
Registered: 08-22-2006 Location: Oregon
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posted on 09-03-2006 at 10:55 |
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Hey
I wouldn't think that anything is wrong with you. I would feel very honered that I was special enough for you to give that to. Just make sure you find a guy that wants you for you, and not because he gets to be your first. Guys will tell you anything you want to hear to get that.
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KICKER
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Registered: 09-06-2006 Location:
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posted on 09-06-2006 at 05:14 |
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Wait until you feel its right
'I wouldn't think that anything is wrong with you. I would feel very honered that I was special enough for you to give that to. Just make sure you find a guy that wants you for you, and not because he gets to be your first. Guys will tell you anything you want to hear to get that. '
Couldnt have said it better myself. I have made some bad choices in the past due to hormoanes raging when it came to a girl being a virgin. I didnt get the chance to take her virginity but luckily I did get the chance to date her at a later date. As a matter of fact Im STILL with her and going 7 1/2 years strong!! I have grown alot in maturity in the passed 10 years. But back to your question. I think if I were confronted by a girl and she told me that she was a virgin I dont think Id have any problem with taking it slow and at the pace she felt comfortable with. As for the BOYS who throw a fit because they didnt score with a virgin, Well they werent worth a damn anyway. Dont let your virginity stand in the way of your happiness. If he is a REAL man he will take it in stride and when your ready he will be the first to know. 
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